Benjamin Inman Trotter, Jr.

August 28, 1926 - February 26, 2012
Benjamin Inman Trotter, Jr.

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Benjamin Inman, Jr., 85, of Midlothian, Va., died on February 26, 2012. Born in Lucedale, Mississippi, on August 28, 1926, he graduated early from Central High School, in Jackson, Miss., to join the U.S. Navy in 1944. After serving in the Pacific, he earned a B.A. from the University of Alabama and a masterís degree in music education from Columbia University and did post-grad work in counseling at Catholic University. He entered federal service as a management intern and was assigned to the Counseling and Testing Service of the U.S. Department of Labor, in Washington, D.C.; in a 40-year career he rose to become the Deputy Director of the Veteranís Employment Service and then served in field posts in Roanoke and Richmond, Va. He retired in 1995. Throughout his career, he led the music ministries of several Presbyterian and Baptist churches in the D.C., Roanoke, and Richmond areas. A man of faith and a music director and singer with a fine bass-baritone, he loved classical and sacred music, especially of J.S. Bach; he had a gift for bringing the same enjoyment to amateur singers. He performed leads in Gilbert & Sullivan operettas, Annie Get Your Gun, Amahl and the Night Visitors, and other musicals and soloed in Handel’s Messiah. He was the Employment Chairman for the American Legion Department of Virginia and a member of local Post 186 in Midlothian; he was a member-at-large of the Veterans of Foreign Wars. He lived 32 years in Chesterfield Co. He was married 54 years to Susan Bender Trotter, who survives him, as do their six children, Amelia Thornton, Andrew Trotter, Martha Warner, Timothy Trotter, Jeannette McGlinsky, and Paul Trotter; 15 grandchildren; and two great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at the American Legion Post 186, 901 Otterdale Rd., Midlothian, Va., at 2 p.m., March 13, 2012. In lieu of flowers, donations to Jillís House, which provides respite care for families of autistic children, in Vienna, Va.–www.jillshouse.org–are welcome.


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  • March 06, 2012
    Nancy Clayton says:
    Susan,I am so sorry to hear of your husband passing away. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Blessings to you and your family, Nancy Clayton

  • March 06, 2012
    Phyllis B. Tardy- Price says:
    So Sorry Your Husband and Father has left you , But memories you must have close to yur hearts. Ben was a co-worker in the Roanoke office of the VEC in 1978 when I married David Price . He gave us such joy by Singing for our wedding. ) And Ruth Said ) and The LORD PRAYER . He blessed so many with his Beautiful Voice but his love of GOD. I am so thankful I knew him for a short time . Keeping you in my prayers as you start the rest of this life journey without his physical presence. GO BLESS You All. Phyllis B Price

  • March 06, 2012
    Christopher M Winslow says:
    I met Ben as a member of American Legion Post 186 in Midlothian, Virginia. He was an absolute patriot, scholar and gentleman and I am a better human being having known him.

  • March 07, 2012
    Jill Quick says:
    Dear Susan, I am so sorry to hear of Ben's death. He was such a fine good man.We are in Florida still, so I won't be able to come to the service. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Much love, Jill Quick

  • March 08, 2012
    Barbara & David Roth says:
    Susan and family, May you experience God's presence, comfort & strength especially now.Ben's smile,beautiful voice and kindness are our first thoughts as we remember him in Queensmill and Third Presbyterian Church Choir. Barbara & David Roth