Blanche Lillian Wayboer

October 23, 1928 - March 25, 2014
Blanche Lillian Wayboer

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Blanche Wayboer, 85, passed away peacefully on March 25, 2014, with her husband and son at her side. A native of Newark, New Jersey, she was born to George W. Wade and Lillian A. Wade on 23 October 1928.

She went through the Newark school system and graduated from Weequahic High School. She met her husband to be, Arthur (Whitey) Wayboer, when she was 12 and he was 13. They married 14 August 1948 and enjoyed 65 years of marriage. Thirty-five of those years were spent in Livingston, New Jersey, moving to Flat Rock, North Carolina upon retirement.

While living in Livingston, Blanche was active in a number of organizations. She was a member of the fundraising committee to build the St. Barnabas Medical Center, a Cub Scout den-mother and a member of the Little League Womenís Auxiliary. She worked on the townís board of elections and was active with the Harrison School PTA, along with other local organizations.

Blanche was an active member of the Livingston Presbyterian Church, teaching Sunday school for 16 years, serving as financial secretary for many years, and serving as President of the United Presbyterian Women of Livingston.

When Art retired in 1989, they moved to Flat Rock, North Carolina. Blanche, an avid book reader, was involved in the Friends of the Library annual book sale and established the Hospice Thrift Storeís book section. She volunteered at Four Seasonís Palliative and Hospice Care. Blanche was also very involved with ìToasty Toes,î knitters of gloves, caps, and socks for our military personnel.

Blancheís faith was very important to her. She loved her church, the Trinity Presbyterian Church of Hendersonville, NC, where she served as a Deacon and member of several committees. She was also a member of the First Congregational Churchís Heyman Fellowship group. Blanche enjoyed the companionship of the many friends she made in her church, Toasty Toes, Heyman Fellowship and other activities.

Blanche and Art loved to travel. They visited all 50 states, the Caribbean, Western Europe, and South America.

Blanche is survived by her husband, Arthur, of Flat Rock and her son, Robert S., his wife Tamilyn, and two granddaughters, Kristina and Jennifer, all of Maine.

A memorial service will be held at 2 PM Tuesday, April 15, 2014 at Trinity Presbyterian Church, Hendersonville, NC. The Reverend Mark Stanley will officiate.

In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to the charity of your choice.


Tuesday, April 15, 2014
12:00 AM

Trinity Presbyterian Church - Directions
900 Blythe Street
Hendersonville, NC 28791

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  • April 01, 2014
    Liz Helms says:
    Dear Art, My heart goes out to you in deepest sympathy for your loss. Although I moved to Seattle almost four years ago to be near my daughter I frequently read the Times-News on line, which is how I learned of Blanche's passing. I have fond recollections of the friendship Frank and I enjoyed with you and Blanche, and want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

  • April 04, 2014
    Roz & Irwin Cooper says:
    Blanche was a wonderful friend. I will miss her Roz

  • August 30, 2018
    Erin Wade, Ocean County NJ says:
    Blanche was my 1st cousin twice removed. I just found her doing genealogy and wanted to ask her questions regarding the family when I stumbled upon this. I am so sad I never had the opportunity to talk with her. She seemed to have been a lovely person. My condolences and apologies.