Pamela Boyles Boehmer

June 5, 1944 - March 20, 2011
Pamela Boyles Boehmer

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Pamela B. Boehmer, 66, of Saluda passed away Sunday, March 20, 2011 at the Elizabeth House.

Born in Montgomery County, OH, she was the daughter of the late C. Palmer and Alma L. Boyles. She was also preceded in death by her sister, Lynn.

She was a graduate of Fairmont High School in Kettering, OH, attended Ohio State University and graduated from the University of Dayton. She retired from the Council on Aging for Henderson County where she was a case manager. A member of St. John in the Wilderness Episcopal Church, she was active in ECW, the Altar Guild, the Care Ministry and the Back Pack Ministry.

She is survived by her husband, Fred of Saluda; two stepsons, Frank Boehmer and wife, Maggie, of Grapevine, TX, and James Boehmer of Indian Lake, OH; grandsons, Ryan, Neil and Drew, all of Texas; granddaughter, Kaitlyn of Ohio; great-granddaughter, Kiley; a niece, Kathy Byerly of CA; and two nephews, Mark Fries and wife Corey of Columbus, OH, and Paul Fries and wife Lynne of College Station, TX.

A funeral service will be held at 11 am Saturday, March 26, 2011 at St. John in the Wilderness. The Reverend John A. Morton and The Reverend Deacon Joyce Beschta will officiate. Burial will follow St. Johnís churchyard. A reception will follow in the Parish Hall.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Council on Aging for Henderson County, 105 King Creek Boulevard, Hendersonville, NC 28792, to Four Seasons Compassion for Life, 571 S. Allen Road, Flat Rock, NC 28731, or to St. John in the Wilderness, PO Box 185, Flat Rock, NC 28731.


Saturday, March 26, 2011
12:00 AM

St. John in the Wilderness Episcopal Church - Directions
1905 Greenville Highway
Flat Rock, NC 28731

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  • March 22, 2011
    John & Jimmie Gail Van Blaricom says:
    Fred, We extend our sincerest sympathy in your great loss. Pam was the epitome of a Lady. Her devotion to worthy organizations and people in need, says volumes about her. We are so sorry we did not know she was ill, . . .we are holding you in our hearts and in our prayers. John & Jimmie Gail

  • March 22, 2011
    John & Margaret Barker says:
    Dear Fred, We will certainly miss Pam's warm smile and friendly personality. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Take care, J & M

  • March 23, 2011
    Carol McLimans says:
    I know Pam as a loving case manager who went above and beyond what many would do to ensure that those she helped were treated with kindness, respect, and love. I was confident that people I referred to her would be helped. The caregivers that she helped had nothing but praise for her. I have worked with many kind and caring people and I consider Pam to be the finest. She will be missed by many as she was loved by many. may you find peace in your memories and strength in God's love. Carol McLimans

  • March 23, 2011
    Chris, Jayme, Brady, & Nathan Beinlich says:
    Mark, Corey, Jonathan, & Fred, While we only had the pleasure of meeting Pam once, it is clear what a special and kind person she was from our short time spent with her and the many wonderful stories you've shared. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. With sincerest sympathy, Chris, Jayme, Brady & Nate Beinlich

  • March 23, 2011
    dick and Judy Beeson says:
    So sorry for your loss.Didn't know Pam that well but sure liked what I knew of her .Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family